Sexual Confidence is Oh, So, Sexy… I have been granted the gift of being with lovers who had this quality and I have also experienced the opposite end of the spectrum, and there is nothing that feels as amazing as being with someone who is Sexually Confident.
Of course, this begins within ourselves, we cannot expect to attract that which we are not, and yet, my feeling about how it feels still remains the same.
Hey, I am allowed to say that, aren’t I?
I truly believe that this is where a lot of this “needing to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with us” can stem from, on another note… when we meet someone who is more sexually confident than we are, it is like a moth to a flame, except the flame eats you up and spits you out. I know, I am being a little harsh here, but the thing about it is that I want you to take charge of your own sexual confidence so that you can be the flame, which attracts another flame… am I making sense yet?
You only ever want to be the flame, my dear loves, it is the only way to be.
How do you get there? You figure out what you need to make your own fire. This is where being single has it’s divine benefits – it is your time, out time, to delve deeper into ourselves and really form an intimate union with the parts of ourselves that we have ignored in the past. It is the time to take responsibility for our own happiness and pleasure, and not rely on others for it. It is the time where we take back our power, including our sexual power and we start to build the fire from what we know will burn for eternity.
From my bright flame to yours, always…
“I want to taste you.” He says to me… “I love the way you kiss me, and I love the way you taste… and there is something I have always wanted to do with you…”
Before he even finished the sentence, my body was opening, I wanted him right then. Hearing him tell me what he wanted – it was like he was speaking to my soul, but better, because it was authentic. Any person can tell you that “they want you”, but this was different. He was so confident in who he was, and I was so confident in who I was that together we made pure magic. Our self love turned into this Ocean of love for each other that went deeper than we had ever been able to go before…